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I have been married to my husband for 19 years. We have 4 children ages 18 down to 6. My husband and I are basically nothing more that roommates. I am not physically attracted to him at all. In fact, the thought of him touching me makes me nauseous. We have sex a few times a year - his birthday, father's day, Christmas maybe. This is basically to keep the peace. Sex with him is nothing more than a chore - like cleaning the toilet or taking out the garbage. I endure it. We have been discussing divorce for just over 6 years now and I have the paperwork complete and ready to file. However, financially, I know that we cannot make it in two separate households with the current economy, not to mention that he was laid off from his job late last year and has been receiving unemployment until this week. With him not receiving any income, it would be impossible for him to find a home suitable for children to visit. The other issue impeding the divorce was the fact that we could not sell our home. Which we tried for a few years about 3 years ago. The market in our area is depressed, not conducive to selling - we would take a huge loss. I have been a wife and mother for so long, that I basically buried my natural instinct to flirt and be flirted with. When someone does happen to flirt with me, I am pretty much oblivious. I was introduced to a single man a few weeks ago at a friend's happy hour event. He was attractive, polite, modest, focused on his goals. He also happens to have all of the traits I am generally drawn to in a man: dark hair, large deep brown eyes, olive skin, amazingly straight teeth, easy smile. While I took everything about him in, I felt strange. I couldn't place it at first. Then, I realized I was feeling giddy... what was that all about. This man was way too young for me - couldn't be more than 22 or 23. So, thinking I was being ridiculous, I finished my drink, and politely excused myself from the event and went home to be a mom again. A few days later, he stopped by the office to pick something up from said friend. He popped into my office to say hello and left about an hour later. During that conversation, it was revealed that he was older than I first thought - late 20's early 30's. He had already been through college, got his bachelors in business, wasn't happy in his career choice after 5 years, so returned to school again - second bachelors is under way - doing his capstone project right now. I felt a strange pull in the pit of my stomache - a longing almost. At least he wasn't just a boy - he was a little older - not 39, but older than originally imagined. Then, last weekend, we saw each other during a lunch event. I entered the room, and sat next to a friend on the diagonal opposite end of the table. I told myself it was easier for me to just sit as far away as possible. (Also, subconseously, better to look at him that way.) Before we could even order, he got up from his seat and came down and sat right next to me. I was taken aback by this bold move. During the lunchtime discussion, I could feel his eyes on me. I tried to keep it light and converse with everyone at the table. It was surreal, I could literally feel the heat coming off his body from 18 inches away. Another one of his friends arrived after him and she said "Nick, I have never seen you without a hat on and in anything other than shorts and flip flops." He was wearing a nicer t-shirt, denim jeans, and leather shoes and his hair had these amazing waves and flips. It was true, I had only seen him with a hat too. This statement from his friend seemed to make him a little embarrassed. He played it off as best he could and continued to talk with me the rest of the time there. My friend said she gets the distinct impression that he is into me. I am at a loss, I don't get flirted with, or maybe I do and I am oblivious. I feel an overwheliming physical attraction to this man. I have never felt this strange pull in my stomache over anyone ever. Not even my husband. I find myself thining about him at random times. So strange. Has anyone else ever experienced this? I don't feel guilty for feeling this way, I am just wondering why it is happening at this time in my life. I am a compulsive planner and exceedingly conservative, so this turn of events doesn't quite fit into my normal life activites. Thanks, in advance, for any insight into this situation.

In your case, it's probably normal...That tang in your gut, is probably the lack of sexual activity, which for some reason seems to be awakening at the site of this guy at work. I wouldn't be all that concerned. You should be in control, soon. Best Wishes..... ♥♥

you need to let go. by reading this whole dam thing i can tell you are a cumpulsive person. let go you married the wrong man now go have fun and f**k the sh*t out of this guy. you wont spend the rest of your life with him but you will regret it for the rest of your life if you dont.

Mid-life crisis...go for it ;-)

WOW!!! that is a ton of writing, ok i will just answer your question as asked in the subject line... Yes of course i have thought another man was sexy besides my husband... i am human after all!

I'm no woman, or even a Psychiatrist, but with all the problems on your plate just now, a Prince Charming pops up, totally out of the blue. Your life has been lacking in romance, for years, and you meet a handsome young man, who besides being good looking is charming as well. You would have to be dead inside, not to get those butterflies in your stomach. I'm sure no woman, your age, or younger, wouldn't feel the same. It's up to you now, to decide how far, this relationship should go, perhaps just as friends, or perhaps a sexual affair. Even with your strictly conservative views, you may be very tempted, if he's agreeable. It's pretty obvious, that you need something to fill that empty feeling inside you. The pity is, that the economy, had to collapse, just when you meet this man. If you had sold your house and your husband still had a job, and you were divorced, you would have more freedom to see where this relationship could lead you. As your divorce is pending, if you do decide to have an affair, at least it won't be breaking up your marriage. You just need to think about, how you will feel, if it doesn't work out, or if you do have sex, will you regret it later on. Just take it slow and easy, and see where it leads you. If nothing else, you will feel better about yourself, doing some flirting and feeling desired by a man you find very attractive. Just be discreet. as you still have young children at home.

its normal to feel attracted to a guy even when you're married but its wrong to act upon these impulses. no matter how bad ur marriage is or how repulsive and hideous ur husband, you should never cheat. if you are so attracted to this new guy, get a divorce and then go for it. you can't keep two guys in dark just to satisfy ur urges. you know wat this strange attraction is, its a test of your character and self control. just ignore that guy

Offer him a BJ

WOW you had a lot of venting to do. So why don't you and your husband legally separate, charge him rent, let him live there and when he can move out then he will and it is obvious this guy likes you so why not go for it?

Basically from what you have said, you are in a sexless, loveless marriage held together by financial constraints. This new man that is on your mind and that you crave ( yes you crave and desire him, be honest to yourself) is a normal occurrence. You are only human and need attention on both a physical, emotional, and intellectual level. If this man is attracted to you ( and NOT just in your imagination or fantasy of him) you have to make a choice. If leaving your "normal" life as you have put it ( yet is it really 'normal' ? ) is not an option, thern have a love affair with him. With his consent and KNOWLEDGE of your situation. If he agrees, do it. If not, move on and live in your lonely world. At times the best love affair can keep together the strangest marriage. You asked if anyone has experienced this? In life and love there are a thousand experiences. Yes I have. And I agreed to her circumstances and took the affair. For nearly 7 years. Until she passed away. When we met I was 39 and she was 50. I still think of her. Miss her. And will always have the memory of her. She was my best friend. I am now with a fantastic woman for 3 years. Yet my paramore will always be my secret. And one of my best times in my life. Best of luck to you.

Awww, I loved the way you wrote this. Besides the part revealing everything about your current husband, I enjoyed the part about this mysterious guy. Yes, he does seem interested into you. And, yes its alright to feel this way. I believe you deserve this feeling and events happening. For one, your husband seems to have Lost interest in you and two, you are a human being that deserves happiness. I suggest you divorce your husband somehow, and if possible, to carry on with this new man. It all happens at any time in our lives when we lease expect it. It has nothing to do with what you do, where you are in life.. it just happens.